Wednesday, August 28, 2013

King of the Lemonade Stand


Dear Husband is deaf. He went deaf suddenly in the summer of 2012 as the result of a severe infection that put him in the hospital for 10 days while doctors ran test after test and scratched their heads. Since then he has struggled with hearing aids and assistive devices, and we’ve taken ASL classes and visited lots of specialists, some of whom I would like to kick in the shins.


What amazes me is how, after such a devastating loss, he embraced his situation. He did research, found Facebook groups, started blogging about hearing loss, and took to ASL with amazing ease. I am very proud of how he has taken charge of his situation.


His hearing has dropped further, from severe/profound to profound, and it looks as if he will soon be getting a cochlear implant. Of course, he has done extensive research on these as well! I think if he could he would stay awake during the operation to direct the surgeon.


Today is our 14th wedding anniversary. I think I am very lucky to be married to such a man. Despite these quite serious health preoccupations, he is always on top of things, always thinking about us. Recently he was laid off, and he set up a plan to finish the last of his education courses and take the teacher certification exam. He has a schedule for himself that makes me feel like a slacker. Once again he sees a setback as an opportunity.


That’s why I titled this King of the Lemonade Stand - he’s one of those people who makes lemonade. 

Happy anniversary, sweetheart! You're the best.

Jeff, and a giraffe.



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    1. This is true love it brought tears to my eyes. I wish every married couple could have this kind of love.
      May you be blessed for another 50 years.
      KK

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  2. Nice blog, Karen!

    Jeff is good guy...and you are an amazingly strong person to be there for him through thick and thin. That, in itself, exemplifies the true meaning of marriage.

    Congrats to you and Jeff...and may you celebrate 50 more years of being together. :)

    Cheers!

    -R85

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  3. Awww...this is so sweet.

    You two are very blessed to have each other.

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  4. Spousal support makes all the difference!! Happy anniversary blessings to BOTH of you!!

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  5. A belated happy anniversary to you both. I'm always amazed at how people can take control of what life throws at them in this way.

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